As my grandma used to always say "U made the bed, u lay in it"...SO TRUE.. U lay down wit the opposite, attract the positives with the negatives and 9 months later, u have to deal with that person for the rest of your life weither you want to or not....if u choose not to deal with her, then pay up... if u choose to deal with the situation, well, then....man up...Easier said than done but the reality is that the kid didnt ask for this... they never asked to come into this cold world , to deal with all the BS that comes with living.. and its even more sad when i hear the news stories of a child that has been murdered or is missing like the latest cases in Florida...Come on...what did they do.? or baby Mommas..You had these kids and they took away ya freedom...now u cant do as u please anymore, right??? So what... why dont you work it out with ya dead beat ass baby daddy and have him watch em for awhile....But No..."i aint leavin my kids with him"...well, stop complainin then...but yall real quick to pass em off to ya mom or grandma to watch em so u can go out to the club 4 nights a week...to meet yet another lame ass dude....goood job mom!!!..lol now u got 3 babies by (i'll be nice) 2 different daddy's....Notice im not using the word "Father"...its Daddy...cause the kids can walk around like that movie "Dont Be A Menace While Drinkin Juice in The Hood", talkin bout some "Are u my daddy?"..... now thats a damm shame...but there are a lot of us out there that never knew and never will know their father..or who they can call they "daddy"...sad but true....im glad i was able to reconnect with my FATHER before he passed last summer...That is something i will always cherish and it also helped me to become a better father... i have a responsibilty to hold up to, i have to raise these kids the best way i can so that they dont have to deal with the unnecessary stress of a dysfunctional household....if they want to ask me a question, whatever it may be, i have an answer...if they need help, im right there to lend them a hand or pick them up after they fall.... Its a beautiful thing being a Father.....Can you relate, or are you just another statistic?? Ask yaself.......
On a side note: "do your job and be a good parent. Take the time out of your personal schedule to be there for them daily, not just on holidays or birthdays" Show em u care....They are looking up to you, weither you know it or not"
~Asap
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